How often do we as parents feel guilty when we do not get the dishes done or our kids clothes folded and put away? I know I do. My spouse has taught me and still is teaching me a very important lesson, to take moments to stop and rest.
Rest? This is often an unheard of term for parents of young ones. Especially a clean freak, perfectionist, with three kids, and a fourth one on the way. I may or may not be talking about myself…
Today I felt so nauseous and could barely keep my eyes open at church. My husband literally made me lay down and take a nap when we got home. The kids and him worked on the basement while I rested. I laid there struggling feeling guilty,q knowing a mess laid in the other room with tripping hazards all over the floor.
As I tried to relax I heard my husband’s voice in my head, “you need your rest everything else can wait. It is important you take care of yourself as well.”
Whoa what?! As much as I do not want to admit it he is right. As moms we constantly put our kids first, but if we are exhausted physically we are emotionally as well. It is natural for our minds to release feelings of anger and stress when we are exhausted. Our ability to control our emotions is lacking as well.
Let’s be honest, is better for our children when we take time to breathe. This allows us to relax our bodies, minds, and emotions. I have enjoyed reading devotionals and journaling. This is one way I have found to help me breathe. I find it gives me a chance to focus my mind on God’s beautiful peace He gives us. Please comment sharing ways you have found to help yourself relax and take a moment to breathe.
My mom fail of the week makes me think of the old saying, “I wish I had eyes in the back of my head.” After our homeschool co-op I was gathering and putting everything away. I open the door to the toddler bathroom, right by me, to check on my daughter and she’s completely naked and soaked washing herself with the sink and paper towels. Then the meltdown begins because I tell her she has to get dressed after I dry her off.
Prior to this, the day before she walks in while I’m using the bathroom completely naked. I ask her why she is naked? She answers, “I’m sad.” I proceed to ask why are you sad? Her answer made me laugh so hard on the inside, “I am sad because I want to watch super wings, so I got naked.”
Apparently as a mom I have failed at stressing the importance of wearing clothes…
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How often do we as parents think to ourselves or say to our children, what on Earth were they thinking? This is how my Sunday started…
My son had left his airplanes in the car. First thing he asked to do when he woke up was to go get his airplanes. I of course told him yes. Next thing I know my oldest daughter is yelling, “Mom he’s peeing on the basement floor!” Completely shocked I ran down and asked him, “Why on Earth did you go to the bathroom on the floor?!” To which he answered, “I didn’t know if we had a bathroom in the basement.” Which we always have. I did not even think about the fact he had not gone to the bathroom since waking up.
Apparently I now have my two year old daughter potty trained, but have to revisit the subject with my three year old son.
Apparently my two year old was tired of me writing about her potty training and decided to have some fun with my stuff in my bathroom… She does have very good fine motor skills hahaha…
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P.S. Potty training update she has been accident free all week and wearing underwear at home! Yay!
Well I am sorry for my constant theme these past few weeks, but whether it is a child or an animal potty training can be very difficult!
We went diaperless with my two year last week at home. When making dinner she was so excited she peed in the toilet, I quickly dumped and rinsed her potty toilet bowl and rushed to stir the food so it did not burn.
I turn around to head back to the bathroom to disinfect her toilet and out comes my two year old saying, “look at my hat!” Her hat was her potty toilet bowl 🤦🤢 Bath time it was!
Please share any hilarious mom fails of the week! We’d love to read them!
As a mom never underestimate your children… My two year old pooped in the bath tub yesterday!!! Just when I think we are getting closer to being diaperless I am proven wrong. Apparently diapers are a lot more comfortable than I thought haha…
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Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.
– James 1:2-3
The Oxford Dictionary defines perseverance as, “persistence in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.” As moms we are faced with many trials how we handle these trials shapes how our children will handle theirs. Our children our constantly watching us and listening. Like a sponge they absorb everything around them good or bad.
We tell our children to think about their actions before doing them. We as parents need to do the same. Give our frustrations to God! We should vent and pray to Him first; before responding to our trials out loud. In Him we will find the strength we need to persevere through our trials.
Potty Training… Do I need to say more?
I forgot to put a diaper on my two year old before we went to town and of course she peed in her car seat.
Please share your mom fail of the week along with any potty training advice you may have!!!!
My mom fail of the week would be rushing…
Today after our homeschool co-op group I was rushing to leave. I kept rushing the kids to the car when I stopped and noticed the smile on my son’s face. He was loving splashing in the puddle. I took a deep breath and knew I needed to let him enjoy the moment. If we are constantly rushing around we will not get to enjoy the little things!
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So we all know how hard potty training can be for some kids and how easy it is for others…. Apparently my children decided to try a new technique…
I look outside and my two year old daughter, who refuses to use the toilet, is peeing by a tree while standing up like her brother is by another tree. Looks like I need to put a tree in my bathroom instead of a toilet. Hahahaha…. Please share you mom fail of the week or funny mom moments!